Sometimes it’s the little things that act as a glue to hold a D/s relationship together. I have to admit I haven’t always been the perfect slave that I aspire to be. I’ve slipped up along the way. I’ve earned my share of punishments for forgetting my place. Only last week I yelled at Mistress during a heated discussion over a non D/s related situation. Yes, I was punished for that.
I want to be sure nothing like that happens again. I seem to be at my best as a service slave. When Mistress has me performing acts of service, and I’m not just talking sexual, even mundane little things, I kneel as I perform them for Her. Now I’ve taken to kneeling and kissing the back of Her hand at the completion of whatever I was doing for Her. It might sound a simple inconsequential little thing but I get a jolt of pure submission when I do this. It feels like an act of respect and humility and it really reminds me of my place in our relationship. Mistress seems to appreciate the gesture and has started to hold Her hand out for me to kiss. Knowing She now expects and demands this act each time just adds to my submissive mindset. I’m glad I started doing it and I feel our relationship is now fully on track.
paddledhusband 
Laura
/ December 11, 2015I enjoy your blog very much…i have a question…do you and your Mistress practice a Female Led Relationship? Im a fairly new Mistress (only been a Mistress for about 3 years now) and my boyfriend of nearly 8 months, is interested in FLR and so am i…im just wondering if you are in an FLR with your Mistress?
paddledhusband
/ December 11, 2015Thank you, Laura. To answer your question yes we do pretty much have a FLR relationship. The kink has been a bit quiet lately, hence my lack of posting. I do most of the housework, cooking etc. I like it this way and Mistress seems happy with the arrangement.